She said | Porn or play things

It’s hard to imagine a room filled with guys sitting around while playing “pass the dildo,” a game played at sex toy parties, which are growing in popularity with women.

It’s almost as hard to imagine women constantly watching pornography for sexual pleasure.

Each gender seems to have a different realm of pleasure when it comes to sexuality.

Although some women do watch porn for pleasure, most of the women I have known watch it more for the entertainment factor and for a good laugh.

However, upon browsing the Internet, I found that women are a growing market for the porn industry, which some people credit to shows like “Sex and the City,” which have made women more comfortable with their sexuality, therefore increasing the popularity of sex toy parties as well.

A survey of more than 10,000 women conducted by www.queendom.com reported that only 6 percent of women have not been exposed to porn in their lives, as opposed to the 1 percent of men who haven’t.

Of the women who use porn, 22 percent prefer to watch it with a significant other, compared to only 10 percent of men who use porn in that same setting.

Is it because they wish to get their fires burning hotter or to cater to their partner’s pleasure rather than their own?

My hypothesis would be the latter, judging by women I have known who have admitted to doing so.

“Men are more visual when it comes to attraction,” said Debbie Madgid, a New York relationship psychologist, in a PRNewswire story titled “The Naked Truth: What America Does Behind the Shower Curtain.”

While men might enjoy watching someone pleasure themselves, women seem to be more hands on, which might attribute to the fact that sex toy parties, like Passion Parties, have increased to over ten times as popular as they were last year.