Move-In Day 2018: Learning to say goodbye

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Melissa Jabek | The Daily Eastern News
Shariah Campbell, a sophomore family and consumer sciences major, helps families move in to Andrews Hall Thursday morning. “I’ve seen a refrigerator on top of a microwave and I was just like “ok” and I moved it in though.”

A box slid off her precarious structure as Rachel Mette dove to make sure nothing got broken in the fall.

Rachel Mette, accompanied by her mother, father and brother, walked into her new home for the first time and prepared to say goodbye.

She, along with many other freshmen and transfer students, moved into her dorm on Thursday with the help of her family, Eastern staff and volunteers during Eastern’s move-in day.

As the first of her siblings moving away from home and into college, Rachel chose Eastern because of its close location to her home.

“(Leaving home is) going to be different because I have four other siblings,” she said. “Now it’ll just be me and my roommate.”

Rachel’s mother, Lisa Mette, was nervous for her first child to be moving away but hoped it would be a good learning experience for her daughter.

Brooke Schwartz | The Daily Eastern News Rachel Mette, an incoming freshman graphic design major from Effingham, Illinois, embraces her mother Lisa Mette in her new dorm room Thursday. Many freshman and transfer students, like Rachel, started Prowl weekend with a teary goodbye from their family.

Brooke Schwartz | Rachel Mette, an incoming freshman graphic design major from Effingham, Illinois, embraces her mother Lisa Mette in her new dorm room Thursday. Many freshman and transfer students, like Rachel, started Prowl weekend with a teary goodbye from their family.

Lisa and her husband are glad Rachel has the opportunity to branch out, even though she is not continuing an education through their alma mater, Illinois State University.

“We’re not used to (Eastern),” Lisa Mette said. “I’ve had a lot of friends go to Eastern and love it. And I’ve had two sisters go to Eastern and love it, so she gets to follow their paths.”

Many parents shared Lisa Mette’s bittersweet feelings on Thursday, and Lauren Bergholz, the complex director for Andrews and Thomas Halls, was there to assist students and their families during the goodbyes.

Bergholz has been a part of move-in day for three years now, and she said she is excited to be able to interact with so many new students this year.

“(Thomas Hall) is like 95 percent freshmen,” she said. “We’ve got a huge, new freshman class, which is exc

iting.”

Thalia Rouley | Two roommates do some heavy lifting while they move cardboard boxes together outside of Weller Hall during move-in day Thursday morning. The girls were excited to be starting the new school year at Eastern.

Bergholz said she was also excited about the idea of move-in day itself.

“Move-in day is (in) my top three favorite days of my job,” she said. “Getting to watch students excitedly move into their rooms and their parents are here, it’s really exciting to see parents get to experience move-in as well.”

Her favorite part of this day is helping families by taking pictures for them.

“I catch parents saying goodbye to their kids and I offer to take a picture,” she said. “I didn’t get a picture with my parents on move-in day, so I really try to catch parents and ask them, ‘Hey, have you taken a picture together today?’ because this is a day you’re going to remember.”

Bergholz’s advice for new students was to get involved.

Brooke Schwartz | The Daily Eastern News Rachel and Lisa Mette, daughter and mother, talk in Rachel’s new, undecorated dorm room in Andrew’s Hall. Rachel was one of many freshman and transfer students who moved into Eastern on Thursday.

Brooke Schwartz | Rachel and Lisa Mette, daughter and mother, talk in Rachel’s new, undecorated dorm room in Andrew’s Hall. Rachel was one of many freshman and transfer students who moved into Eastern on Thursday.

“Go to everything,” she said. “Just go. Even if you think you’re going to go alone, you’ll find someone once you get there. Don’t be afraid to knock on someone’s door.”

Rachel Mette had the same idea in mind when crafting her goal for her freshman year, which she said was to “let new adventures come.”

While the Mette family moved Rachel’s remaining belongings into her new room, her mother reflected on how life will be with her first child away at school.